simple question really which came up from a conversation i had with one of my friends. the point i made was i wanted to have a place of my own, since ive never been able to have friends over, etc, because my friends drink, smoke, and all sorts. additionally the person i am around my family is most definitely different to who i am around my friends in many ways, and that some times i feel like im living a lie. he said that i am, but it was okay because there should be a level of respect for you to not be able to communicate about things, etc. so how well do ur parents know you guys. if there was a spy cam on you when u were away with friends and your parents could see, would they be alarmed?