I have made a mistake - Please Help me

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  1. Mad Genius
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    How would you react if she breaks up with you and start dating some other guy? (Assuming you wanted to persist with the relation)
     
  2. Saj
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    Chill. Don't take life so seriously. You're too yiung to be worried about anything. Just go have fun.
     
  3. SA123
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    I know her very well. She wouldn't.
     
  4. KingOfDoosra
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    They say if you don't have anything better to say, it's better to just keep quiet.
     
  5. Mad Genius
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    What if she does?
     
  6. Wistful Reminisces
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    Assuming she did
     
  7. SA123
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    I would obviously be angry haha....
     
  8. Mad Genius
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    Angry or heartbroken?
     
  9. CricketFan96
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    :)
     
  10. CricketFan96
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    Don't break up man, she'll be killing herself :(
     
  11. Mad Genius
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    There is nothing wrong with the thread. You know he's 14, right? So his social circle would mostly consist of his age group who are not mature enough to advise him on this matter and he might be feeling shy to seek an advice from his elder family members.
     
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  13. Passionate Pakistani
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    :fp identify the diff

    One is a general discussion
    Another is private

    And going by your logic we shouldnt start any thread in cricket section either as we dont have any cricket analysts.
     
  14. Express Pace
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    I don't trust people with religious slogans in there signatures or go on about religion. Same guys that try and hook up on tinder.

    What do you think Passionate Pakistani
     
  15. Mad Genius
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    It wasn't a general discussion topic. You specifically asked for religious verdict on that matter.

    Also, it's not as if SA123 has revealed her or his own identity that you are criticizing him for sharing private info. It's just you never miss an oppurtunity to bully kids on this forum :angry
     
  16. Passionate Pakistani
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    this is bullying kids ? okay then.
     
  17. Mad Genius
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    Yes, it is :slap
     
  18. Passionate Pakistani
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    i agree with you to an extent that you dont need to show it by mentioning it in your signature etc or frequent use of MashAllah/InshAllah .. but then again we dont live in their hearts either, we dont know who is show off and who is really in love with his religion.
     
  19. ComradeVenom
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    Relax bro. Mistakes happen. Break up with her and do tauba.
     
  20. Fallen King
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    That was for his benefit, not from Religious's perspective. If he can't help himself, perhap safer course of action would do nicely for him? Most young people are growing up pretty quickly and they can't help themselves. I don't blame them. It is hard to resist the temptation when its is staring right at their faces.
     
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    Chill. By screw her, I didn't mean go kill her and throw her in a hole. I meant that just leave her, obviously dont hurt her feelings and try to leave her in the best possible manner.
     
  22. Square Drive
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    So, you're saying that doing things that you KNOW are wrong without your parents knowing is not betraying your parents?

    Something wrong with you.
     
  23. Square Drive
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    What the freak is wrong with you? I'm doing what's best for the kid. He wants to get out of this misery, I'm only trying to help him get out of it.

    Jeez, some of you here really have a very low IQ level.

    The kid himself is thanking me for helping him, but some of you people are having issues. Ridiculous.
     
  24. Square Drive
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    Get a life.

    It's all about the intention, and my intention was clean.

    Up to you if you want to analyze every single letter like a desi aunty.
     
  25. CricketFan96
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    Calm down, mate

    TM Riddle just got p'wnd
     
  26. Square Drive
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    Hard to calm down when I'm being targeted for helping the OP out. He himself is thanking me, but some here have issues.
     
  27. CricketFan96
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    Doesn't mean you have to quit these sections :shrug

    Different people, different views.
     
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    Good that you clarified this confusion. By your previous statement, that did leave many interpretations to explore. :)

    That depends on situation. Sometimes not telling parents is not wrong either. Besides, this kid is not supposed to confess his sins to us on public platform.

    If parents don't find out about this, and handle this situation in amicable manner, then all is fine. Why put parents through all for naught? :thinking
     
  29. Patriot
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    Easy fella

    I'm just looking out for you. You know our current team crisis :(
     
  30. iAd
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    Don't seek validation from others Shahid. Clear your head, calm down, decide what you really want and then go for it.

    You'll only be happy when you make your own decision that too not seeking validation from others but seeking happiness for yourself and that's all I can really tell you SA123.

    Take care & all the best bro.
     
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    Make mistakes bro, that's how you learn. Just follow your heart and let it flow. Have some fun.
     
  32. Fallen King
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    His name is Shahid? Already becoming Shahid as we speak. :)

    Eik Cricket se retire ho raha hai aur dusra relationship se retire ho rahe hain. :thinking
     
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    I thought i read the similar post yesterday. :thinking
     
  34. KingOfDoosra
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    Every under 18 guy on here thinks love is beautiful iAd :clap

    Bas main hi shareef hoon :shrug
     
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    Doosra teesra ki baat kabhi naahin samajh sakhtay, shareef kitna bhi kyun na ho. :thinking
     
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  37. Wistful Reminisces
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    Love is like life, has its ups and downs, but nothing more beautiful
     
  38. iAd
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    Love is one of the most beautiful things in the world. I hope you experience it soon too Aneeq.
     
  39. KingOfDoosra
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    Are you experiencing it?
     
  40. Wistful Reminisces
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    Yeah. Ik now after Misbah
     

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