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Were you a bullied at school or were you the bully?

Discussion in 'The Pavilion' started by Mercenary, May 15, 2012.

  1. Mercenary
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    Mercenary The Lone Wolf

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    I've never thought of myself as a bully at school and I dont feel that I was a bully but when I remember some of things I used to do, it's a fine line between having a laugh and being a bully.

    Some of the following things that I did at school would be considered bullying in todays wishy-washy world where everyone is a cry-a-baby but at the time it was just kids having fun...

    * we used to play football at the top of a steep bank at the back of our school field and once (for a laugh) i rolled a mota (fatty) from my class down the bank and he started crying but it wasnt done maliciously.

    * a guy from Pakistan joined our class and he didnt know any english so he used to ask me and my best mate how to spell things. We used to make him write stuff like 'I love you Miss' and 'I pooed myself in my sleep last night' At first she thought he had a crush on her but when she found out we got into a lot of trouble!

    * I was always stirring fights between people (dont you dare say nothing changes) and my crowning achievment was getting the two fattest guys in school to fight each other. It wasn't easy but I fgot it done in the end. Sadly I missed it myself because I was in detention in science class on an unrelated matter. Another fight I stirred (and missed) was between two of the shortest guys in the school. Apparently it got broken up by the guys gathered to watch it because one of the idiots brought in knuckle dusters and a chain... :eek:

    ...I wasnt a bully at all but were any of you? Or were you the one who got bullied?
     
  2. karachigirl
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    karachigirl Tracer Bullet

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    I'm not a bully, though at times I make a lot of smart alecky remarks to people, and kick them when they deserve it (what can I do, I play soccer?)

    I do get bullied sometimes, though I don't give a c*** to what the other person is saying. Haters gonna hate
     
  3. Energy
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    Energy Cornered Tiger

    Apr 22, 2012
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    Bullied in the early days (grade 3-4), the guys used to make me field only and did not give me batting or bowling. :(

    Things changed a lot after that!
     
  4. NO 1 AFRIDI FAN
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    NO 1 AFRIDI FAN Talented

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    Never have got bullied. Never have been a bully. Though, I have had the tedious remarks about being short from the lanky goray at times. However, that was not bullying as it was just for fun. I don't bully people, just mess around with them. I would never bully anyone, imagine how it'd feel if it was me in their position getting bullied?
     
  5. Saul Goodman
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    Saul Goodman Smooth Operator

    Jun 12, 2011
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    Gorah called me a paki at school once. I didnt take offense, but considering our school was 95% pakistani the poor old gorah didnt come out too good. My favourite teacher asked me who was involved but i said i didnt see didley. He knew i was lying but he knew i wasn't going to snitch. The Gorah was a bloody mess and never came back to school.
     
  6. Disco Lemonade
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    Yeah there was this girl in school who use to take my pencil and other stationary things right at the time when teacher used to be dictating something or even during exams. She used to sit just behind my desk.
     
  7. Prince Pathan
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    well i used to get alot of taunts because my second name was the same as that of a dictator in iraq

    so didnt mind it much but religion class one day i got fed up with this one guy...got up from my seat walked forward punched him in the face 3 times then smacked his head off the radiator and sat back down to a quiet class and a few chuckles

    funnily enough nothing happened to me because they were seen as the racists lol...
     
  8. Passionate Pakistani
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    facepalm

    i was bullied so much in college ... there were like 35 girls in our class and only 8/9 boys facepalm and all those girls were so talented lol.. there was no boy in top 7, i was number 8th in the class and like every teacher used to have a go at me facepalm... some really depressing time

    last day at college was such a relief :D
     
  9. Inswinger
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    Inswinger Tracer Bullet

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    Never got bullied and never knowingly bullied anyone. Now that I look back I think there are a few things I shouldn't have done to certain people.
     
  10. Victorious Pakistan
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    Victorious Pakistan Smooth Operator

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    Much the same as Inswinger. Never got bullied but looking back at some things i did to some people and thinking i shouldn't have.
     
  11. Cover Drive
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    Cover Drive Talented

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    Concur with Inswinger bhais post

    I have never bullied anyone nor was bullied, however, in hindsight I do regret doing stuff which I shouldn't have done.

    For example, I once fought with a guy in Grade 3 (if I remember correctly), so we had a fight in play area (all sand area) I got angry at this guy laid him on ground, sat on his stomach and slapped his face. Worst was I took sand and poured in his mouth!!

    I really regret and am ashamed of this act of mine :(.
     
  12. Prince Pathan
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    alaka sanga pukhtun eh ? :p
     
  13. Passionate Pakistani
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    35 are just too much man.... :p
     
  14. Prince Pathan
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    1 knife is enough for 1000 tomatoes
     
  15. Don Corleone
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    Don Corleone Kaptaan

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    Got bullied in 1st class - not after that.

    Not intenionally been the bully or bullied anyone though I had some cheeky comments coming out of my mouth here and then. Explosive anger at times with people calling me arrogant sometimes....
     
  16. Don Corleone
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    Don Corleone Kaptaan

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    Don Corleone Kaptaan

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    I wonder if I do come accross as Arrogant on forums :thinking
     
  18. SwingNSeam
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    SwingNSeam Boom Boom

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    I feel intimated by Pboys posts...I think hes bullying me online.....


    Pakistaniboy ^
     
  19. SwingNSeam
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    SwingNSeam Boom Boom

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  20. Inswinger
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    Inswinger Tracer Bullet

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    Pakistaniboy , how arrogant of you to post three times in a row on this thread.
     
  21. Major
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    Major Cornered Tiger

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    I have been abit of a bully and also been bullied.. Would like to share later on...
     
  22. TM Riddle
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    TM Riddle Smooth Operator

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    NO ..actually I used to bully students , it was fun
     
  23. iAd
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    iAd Sultan of Swing

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    LOL. Why? Kya ker thay thay?
     
  24. TM Riddle
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    TM Riddle Smooth Operator

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    many things lol though I feel guilt when I think about them
     
  25. Fireworks11
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    Fireworks11 Fantasy Draft Wins: 1

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    Never bullied or been bullied.

    Have had a lot of banter though.
     
  26. Don Corleone
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    Don Corleone Kaptaan

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    Guilty as charged :D
     
  27. P.B
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    P.B Smooth Operator

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    Bit of both.
     
  28. Rhythm
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    Rhythm Cornered Tiger

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    I used to bully kids like PB.
     
  29. KingOfDoosra
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    KingOfDoosra Sultan of Swing

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    Probably bullied people unintentionally at times :shrug Always try to apologise though
     
  30. Don Corleone
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    Don Corleone Kaptaan

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  31. KingOfDoosra
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    KingOfDoosra Sultan of Swing

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    Mans got back up
     
  32. Don Corleone
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    Don Corleone Kaptaan

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    Who's got your back?
     
  33. KingOfDoosra
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    KingOfDoosra Sultan of Swing

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    Fireworks11
     
  34. Don Corleone
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    Don Corleone Kaptaan

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    I'll buy his loyalty with a Cristiano Ronaldo Man Utd signed shirt.
     
  35. Fireworks11
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    True friend will go out of their way to help you
     
  36. WaQaReD!
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    WaQaReD! Talented

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    was bullied as a little kid - he later went on to become my best friend(and also end up in prison twice, for 7 armed robberies and drug dealing)
    was also bullied in secondary school but that stopped when I battered him in front of about 100 people after he bullied a friend of mine
    I would like to batter him again but he kisses my arse any time he sees me

    Have never bullied anyone or generally been mean to someone in a serious or degrading manner(excluding the time I battered the black guy outside his house whilst his mum watched but that was only because he actually started a fight with a brother of mine) which might be surprising to some considering I was involved in plenty of fights as a teen(including some with knives, machetes and baseball bats) and have been boxing for a fair time(and kickboxing for a bit when I was a teen)

    I am not an angry person at all and don't like confrontation. It would ruin my morning dump when I had to worry about the fights from the night before. I far prefer being happy and having peace in my life. I have little time for dramatics
     
  37. Patriot
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    Patriot Kaptaan

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    have you proposed her yet :p
    x
     
  38. Patriot
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    I never bullied nor got bullied :shrug

    Legend :shrug

    The Dark Knight of School :shrug

    Note Red Devil SwingNSeam P.B :shrug
     
  39. WaQaReD!
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    WaQaReD! Talented

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    I went to an all boys school. Oh the irony (no homo)
     
  40. Desi_Joker
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    Got bullied in like secondary school, but all that changed once I went to high school.

    Never bullied anyone. I'm generally a pretty calm person and a bit of a pacifist. :shrug
     

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