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What is the ideal age gap between both life partners?

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  1. Passionate Pakistani
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    Normally its 3-4 years.. very rarely you see male n female both of same age and very very very rarely you will see a female older than male partner.

    And in villages etc, its still like 10-15 years difference.


    What do you guys think is an ideal age gap between both ?

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  2. Mohsin
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    Mohsin Sultan of Swing

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    I don't think age gap matters that much. It's more mental age/maturity.
     
  3. Fireworks11
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    There is no holy grail as such. Depends on each individual and their situation.

    Typically though, it’s pretty normal to have a 2-5 year age gap, even a 7 year age gap. The boy being older obviously.
     
  4. Mohsin
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    Mohsin Sultan of Swing

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    Btw 10-15 year age gap re village jhoris, is just ziyati imo
     
  5. Fireworks11
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    That’s a whole generation age gap. But it does happen a lot in the sub continent.
     
  6. Patriot
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    how come. I wouldn't mind in any way to marry a woman that older than me
     
  7. Patriot
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    Patriot Kaptaan

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    Johnny Dep married Amber Heard whos 20 years younger then him

    I think its all down to peoples decision, if they like each other why not
     
  8. Mohsin
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    Mohsin Sultan of Swing

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    But this would still be your choice...what I'm talking about isn't really a choice.

    To have an 18 year old marry a 33+ year old is not fair imo (unless obviously the girl wantsto/is happy, then that's her own choice).

    Re a woman 10/15+ years older, then there are questions over children.
     
  9. Fireworks11
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    It’s more understandable if the guy is older. A 55 year old marrying a 35 year old is okay, however, a 40 year old marrying a 20 year old isn’t.
     
  10. Mohsin
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    Mohsin Sultan of Swing

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    There are many nice looking older women in the UK, especially further North you go (Liverpool has lots).
     
  11. Patriot
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    so if a 18 year old boy is marrying a 33+ woman then its fine ?
     
  12. Mohsin
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    Mohsin Sultan of Swing

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    Refer to the second paragraph of my previous response (genders reversed).
     
  13. ASLI-PATHAN
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    ASLI-PATHAN Cricistan Khan

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    5 years is ideal gap. The Woman should be 5 years younger
     
  14. PakistanZindabad!
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    PakistanZindabad! Cornered Tiger

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    Up to about 5 years max imo


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  15. MNA
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    MNA Smooth Operator

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    There are some very stocky burly hairy horny men up North as well if you were interested.....
     
  16. Don Corleone
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    Don Corleone Kaptaan

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    Yeah man. I heard @Prince Pathan is into cougars so he probably knows the best.
     
  17. pat
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    not sure there is such a thing
     
  18. Mohsin
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    Mohsin Sultan of Swing

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    I'll pass
     
  19. Bella
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    Bella Youngsta Beauty

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    I don't think that couple is a good example. lol

    I do know of many couples in my family that have big age differences that work out extremely well. Lots of my Aunts and cousins have married much older men. Also many are the same age.

    Age doesn't really matter to me. I have brothers that are a lot older than me so I do understand references to a time before I was born. I think it helps to have things in common.
     

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